Bullies are still out there

Wednesday, May 16, 2018

Bullies used to simply shake down the weaker kids for lunch money, but these days, the bully business has gone online, and it’s booming.

According to a survey of middle school students 10 percent said they were recent victims of cyberbullying, while 20 percent claimed to be “lifetime” victims of online bullies.

Moreover, according to a recent report commissioned by the National Crime Prevention Council, 81 percent of teens surveyed find cyberbullying funny. Further, recent information on cyberbullying shows that it can lead to depression, anxiety, even suicide.

Bullying is present in all children’s lives, whether they are male or female, teens or younger, bullies or the bullied.

It reigns on the schoolyard, in the classrooms, in the hallways, on sports teams, even on the Internet. Inside and outside of the classroom, kids are coming face to face with a new enemy, one who’s often their age and their size. As parents and educators struggle to reach children who are being bullied, kids often end up dealing with bullies on their own.

Many believe this is an ongoing issue for today’s teens. They believe that parents and educators need to meet this crisis head on and give our kids the tools to deal with bullies. Self-confidence is one of those tools.

Part of the solution is for parents to be actively involved with their children and our teachers to be extra attentive to such problems.

The key is to find a way to open up the lines of communication for kids who are being bullied. It is not easy for children to admit that they are being picked on. Being bullied can lead to loss of interest in activities, even excessive absences from school.

It is up to the adults in our children’s lives to help them find the tools necessary to stand up for themselves and say “stop."